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Last Updated: June 20, 2026
"A lot of us were these kids that were walking around with unaddressed sensory needs because it just wasn't really a part of the conversation yet and although we've grown up, our sensory systems might still have those same needs."
That's Rita Sverdlova, founder of PlayWell Brooklyn, a sensory play space staffed by occupational therapists, speech therapists, play therapists, and psychologists. She tried Stimm products firsthand and shared her perspective for a Stimm editorial feature.
She named something a lot of adults quietly recognize.
Maybe you were the kid who couldn't sit still in class. The one who tapped every surface with a pencil, chewed the erasers down to nothing, or needed to touch every texture in the fabric store. Teachers told you to stop. You tried. The need didn't go away. It just went underground.
Research confirms what Rita describes. A 2022 longitudinal study in Frontiers in Psychology (May-Benson et al.) followed adults who had received occupational therapy as children for sensory-motor challenges. The finding: approximately 50% of those adults still experienced sensory needs in adulthood. Your nervous system does not leave its sensory preferences behind when you turn 18. It just stops being accommodated.
For many adults, the consequences are ongoing. A 2019 study in Frontiers in Integrative Neuroscience (McMahon et al.) found that unaddressed childhood sensory processing differences are significantly linked to adult anxiety disorders, mediated by emotion dysregulation. The avoidance cycle, where you stop seeking sensory tools because they feel childish or stigmatizing, makes things harder over time, not easier.
A fidget necklace does not fix any of this. What it offers is something more practical: a discreet, wearable tool that meets your nervous system where it is, without announcing that you need it.
The Adult Fidget Tool You Didn't Know You Needed
Stimm Jewelry designs sensory tools — worn as jewelry — for anxious, overwhelmed, and neurodivergent people. Our pieces use 316L surgical-grade stainless steel and are built for everyday use across four sensory modalities: Sound, Touch, Movement, and Scent. We are not a medical provider. We make tools that may support sensory regulation as part of a broader self-care approach.
A fidget necklace is a wearable pendant designed to provide tactile, auditory, or olfactory input during moments of stress, anxiety, or overwhelm. It looks like jewelry. It works as a regulation tool. Unlike a fidget spinner or a stress ball, it reads as an accessory in a meeting room, on a first date, or at a family dinner. No explanation required.
Stimm makes several fidget necklaces, addressing a multiple sensory pathways. They are not interchangeable.
Two Separate Products: The Calming Heart Necklace and the Scent Necklace
These are two distinct products, not variations of the same necklace. One contains a chime and provides tactile and auditory input. The other holds essential oils and provides olfactory input. Neither does both.
The Calming Heart Necklace
Sensory pathway: Tactile and auditory
Material: Silver-plated brass
Stimm line: Sound
The Calming Heart Necklace is a heart-shaped pendant made from silver-plated brass. Inside the pendant is a small chime. When you hold or gently move the pendant, the chime produces a soft, subtle tone.
Darshan, a stylist who wears Stimm jewelry, describes the experience:
"It's this heart necklace, what makes this necklace a little different is inside there's this little chime...I don't think you can hear it through this audio, so you'll have to trust me, but it's got this subtle little noise, little chime, and it's just so beautiful and relaxing. And I just think it's the perfect little gift. I would wear this year-round. It's not just for Valentine's Day."
Holding the pendant and feeling the chime gives you two sensory inputs at once: the tactile sensation of holding something with weight and shape, and a quiet auditory cue that gently redirects attention. For people who regulate through sound or touch, this combination may support a calming response.
The Calming Heart Necklace does not hold oils and has no aroma function. It is a tactile-auditory tool only.
The Scent Necklace
Sensory pathway: Olfactory
Material: Standard stainless steel with a cotton sponge insert
Stimm line: Scent
The Scent Necklace is a small stainless steel pendant with a cotton sponge insert inside. You add a few drops of your own essential oils to the sponge, close the pendant, and wear it throughout the day. The sponge releases your chosen scent slowly, giving you a discreet olfactory anchor whenever you need it.
Maxwell, who tested the Scent Necklace against several other aroma jewelry products before settling on this one, describes it this way:
"I've tried so many different kinds of aroma jewelry. Other cylinder styles, the lavaballs (alone or in a cage), lockets of all shapes and sizes and this little stainless steel pill is far and away the best. I call it my little chill pill. The shape and weight are wonderful for fidgeting, with the added benefit of holding any oils you choose. Highly polished with a graceful design, and textured band at the middle. Its sturdy, won't irritate your skin, no sharp or uneven surfaces you'll find on lesser products."
Maxwell also notes that the necklace doesn't leak and delivers over a week of slow-release scent from about five drops of oil. Something worth knowing before you purchase: Right now Stimm does not sell essential oils. You source your own. The necklace holds your oil; what you put in it is your call, but that may change soon! Subscribe to the newsletter to be the first one to know.
The Scent Necklace has no chime and produces no sound. It is an olfactory tool only.
Why Discreet Matters for Adults
Most sensory tools were not designed for adults in professional environments. Fidget spinners look like toys. Stress balls look clinical. Rocking or chewing attracts stares. When your coping tool signals distress to the people around you, it adds a second layer of anxiety: the social cost of being visibly seen struggling.
Jewelry changes that entirely.
A necklace reads as personal style. No one in your meeting knows whether the pendant you're holding between your fingers is a family heirloom or a regulation tool you reach for when your cortisol spikes. What it means is yours. And that invisibility matters more than most people acknowledge.
Rita Sverdlova frames this clearly:
"I think it's such a great product to help destigmatize sensory needs and it helps people feel more comfortable with using items to support their own sensory needs."
That destigmatization is more than a nice sentiment. The McMahon et al. (2019) research links avoidance, including avoiding sensory tools because they feel stigmatizing, to the emotion dysregulation pathway that feeds adult anxiety disorders. Removing the stigma by making the tool look like jewelry is part of what makes it accessible.
Amy, who bought the necklace for her daughter, put it plainly:
"My daughter loves it. I had been seeking age-appropriate alternatives to fidget toys. This fits the bill."
Age-appropriate. Adults who need sensory tools do not need a plastic cube covered in buttons. They need something that looks like it belongs in their life.
What the Research Actually Says
The direct answer: sensory regulation tools may help, but no peer-reviewed research has tested fidget necklaces for anxiety reduction specifically.
Here is what the research does support:
Approximately 50% of adults who had childhood sensory-motor challenges continue to experience those needs in adulthood (May-Benson et al., Frontiers in Psychology, 2022). Unaddressed childhood sensory needs are linked to higher rates of adult anxiety disorders through the mechanism of emotion dysregulation (McMahon et al., Frontiers in Integrative Neuroscience, 2019). And a 2025 study found that combined tactile and olfactory stimulation reduced anxiety by 42.3% and supported parasympathetic nervous system activation in a healthcare setting (Xie et al., BMC Psychology).
What that means practically: the sensory pathways that Stimm's necklaces address, touch and sound in the Calming Heart Necklace, and scent in the Scent Necklace, have research support behind them as relevant to nervous system regulation. Whether either necklace supports your nervous system is something you'll discover through use.
Stimm's products are sensory tools, not medical devices. We are transparent about that. They are designed to support sensory regulation as part of a broader self-care approach, not to replace professional support.
Using a Fidget Necklace at Work
Picture 2 PM on a Wednesday. You're in a video call. The agenda has run over, someone is questioning a decision you made last week, and anxiety is starting to climb. You can't excuse yourself. A fidget spinner is out of the question.
But you can hold your necklace.
Feel the weight of the pendant. Move it slightly. If it's the Calming Heart, let the chime sound once. If it's the Scent Necklace, take a slow breath and let the scent reach you. The meeting continues. You're in it differently.
Darshan, who actively recommends the Calming Heart Necklace as a gift, validates the professional context without hesitation: she says she'd wear it year-round, not just on a specific occasion. That's the workplace test. If a stylist recommends it to clients without a second thought about whether it belongs in a professional setting, it belongs.
Fidget Necklaces as a Gift
Both necklaces make considered gifts. The evidence is in how people describe them. Darshan found the Calming Heart Necklace while specifically researching gift ideas for her clients' friends and family. Amy bought one for her daughter after searching for something that didn't read as a clinical tool.
The Calming Heart Necklace has particularly strong gift appeal. Its heart shape reads as intentional and warm. Stimm packages its pieces in a jewelry box with a satin pouch and a story card, so it arrives looking like something that was chosen with care.
If you're looking for something for a friend starting a high-stress role, a partner navigating an anxious season, or a family member who could use a grounding tool they'd actually wear every day, a fidget necklace offers something that doesn't announce what it is. It looks like a gift. What it does is between the wearer and their nervous system.
The sensory tools and techniques discussed in this article are not a substitute for professional mental health treatment. They may be helpful as part of a broader anxiety management approach. If your anxiety significantly interferes with daily life, please reach out to a qualified mental health provider.
When to Seek Help
Sensory tools can support your nervous system in difficult moments. They are not a replacement for professional mental health care.
If you are experiencing persistent anxiety, panic attacks, or symptoms that interfere with daily life, please reach out:
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 (available 24/7)
- NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness): 1-800-950-6264 (Mon–Fri, 10 AM–10 PM ET)
- Psychology Today Therapist Finder: psychologytoday.com/us/therapists
Frequently Asked Questions
What is a fidget necklace?
A fidget necklace is a wearable pendant designed to provide sensory input during moments of stress, anxiety, or difficulty focusing. It looks like jewelry and functions as a discreet self-regulation tool. Stimm makes two types: the Calming Heart Necklace (silver-plated brass, with a small internal chime for tactile and auditory input) and the Scent Necklace (standard stainless steel with a cotton sponge insert for olfactory input from your own essential oils).
Can adults use fidget necklaces?
Yes. Research published in Frontiers in Psychology (May-Benson et al., 2022) found that approximately 50% of adults with childhood sensory-motor challenges continue to experience those needs in adulthood. Fidget necklaces are designed for adults who want a professional-acceptable, jewelry-form sensory tool that can be worn at work, in social situations, or at home without drawing attention.
Are fidget necklaces appropriate for the workplace?
Yes. Unlike fidget spinners or stress balls, a fidget necklace looks like an accessory. You can wear it in meetings, during presentations, or at your desk without it signaling anything about your state of mind. Darshan, a professional stylist who wears Stimm jewelry, calls the Calming Heart Necklace "the perfect little gift" and says she'd wear it year-round. That's practical endorsement of its workplace suitability.
What is the difference between the Calming Heart Necklace and the Scent Necklace?
These are two separate products for two different sensory pathways. The Calming Heart Necklace (silver-plated brass) contains a small internal chime: it provides tactile and auditory input and does not hold oils. The Scent Necklace (standard stainless steel with a cotton sponge insert) holds your own essential oils and provides olfactory input through slow scent release: it has no chime. Choose based on whether your nervous system responds more readily to sound and touch, or to scent.
How do I use the Scent Necklace?
Open the pendant and place a few drops of your chosen essential oil onto the cotton sponge insert. Close the pendant and wear it. The sponge releases the scent gradually throughout the day. Stimm does not supply oils; you choose and source your own. Maxwell's experience suggests that about five drops can deliver over a week of consistent, slow scent release without leaking.
Is there scientific evidence that fidget necklaces help with anxiety?
No peer-reviewed research has tested fidget necklaces for anxiety specifically. However, research supports the underlying sensory pathways. A 2025 study found that combined tactile and olfactory stimulation reduced anxiety by 42.3% and supported the parasympathetic nervous system in a healthcare setting (Xie et al., BMC Psychology). And research confirms that unaddressed childhood sensory needs are linked to adult anxiety disorders (McMahon et al., 2019). Stimm's necklaces are sensory tools, not medical devices, and are not intended to treat any condition.
Is the Calming Heart Necklace made from 316L surgical-grade stainless steel?
No. The Calming Heart Necklace is made from silver-plated brass. The Scent Necklace is made from standard stainless steel with a cotton sponge insert. Stimm's 316L surgical-grade stainless steel is used in the Fidget Ring line, not the necklace line. If material sensitivity is a concern, please check the specific product listing before purchasing.
Sources and References
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May-Benson, T.A., Teasdale, A., & Easterbrooks-Dick, O. (2022). Relationship Between Childhood Sensory Processing Differences and Quality of Life as Adults. Frontiers in Psychology, 13. https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.886833/full
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McMahon, K., Anand, D., Morris-Jones, M., & Rosenthal, M.Z. (2019). A Path From Childhood Sensory Processing Disorder to Anxiety Disorders: The Mediating Role of Emotion Dysregulation and Adult Sensory Processing Disorder Symptoms. Frontiers in Integrative Neuroscience. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6629761/
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Xie, J., Elsadek, M., Deshun, Z., Zhou, Z., & Gao, J. (2025). Tactile and olfactory stimulation reduce anxiety and enhance autonomic balance: a multisensory approach for healthcare settings. BMC Psychology, 13(1). https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12275342/
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Stimm Jewelry creates sensory tools designed to support mindfulness and sensory regulation. We are not a medical provider, and our products are not medical devices. Content reviewed for accuracy 2026-06-20.